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Peter Michaelson: Deeper into Racism

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by Peter Michaelson

Barack Obama's great speech on racism this week could have gone deeper into the American psyche. But he did begin to plumb the further reaches of this social dysfunction that continues to plague us.

Obama's speech examined America's continuing struggle to rise above racial hostility. He denounced racial bitterness and encouraged us to move forward in harmony. He also tried to help us understand the anger from the past that his pastor, Rev. Jeremiah Wright, has expressed in his sermons.

If we go deeper into the source of racism, we can make faster progress in alleviating it. Racism is a form of self-defeat and national sabotage, and unresolved conflicts and negative emotions in the human psyche cause it. In one respect, a racist is a person who is desperate to feel superior to others in order to cover up his emotional entanglement in the conviction of his own inferiority. That conviction of inferiority is an aspect of the racist's dark side that typically he or she declines to understand or even to acknowledge.

This kind of an entanglement in the dark side has many variations. The power-hungry politician compulsively seeks the emotional validation that comes from feeling powerful because he or she feels unworthy or insignificant without it. In the same way, a greedy businessman can seek wealth in order to feel superior to others, just as a person who pursues sexual conquest does so for a surge of personal validation.

In the same vein, a person who can't stomach the idea of a black man or a woman as president is someone who, because of inner entanglement in the dark side, would feel personally reduced by the experience. Similarly, a pseudo-patriot is a person who feels compelled to identify with the greatness of his nation to compensate for how small or insignificant he feels without this emotional connection.

Politicians can't speak to us so frankly about our human failings because too many of us would be offended and reject their words with defensive hostility. (People disliked it when Jimmy Carter, in a much less threatening way, tried to tell us what was good for us.) However, Obama alluded to the dark side when in his speech he shined a light, as Maureen Dowd put it in The New York Times, "on that clannish place where grudges and grievances flourish."

Racism is a negative, primitive way to bolster one's self-image. As a psychological cover-up, it doesn't work as well as it did in the Jim Crow era because the racist no longer has widespread social acceptance for his form of dysfunctional acting out. Racism has now become more subtle.

People hide their racism even from themselves. For instance, many people will vote against Obama for racist reasons, while doing so in "good conscience" because they have deluded themselves into believing in the objectivity of the political attacks against him. This is why Obama is particularly vulnerable to negative campaigning. It explains, for instance, why so many are willing to go on believing that Obama is a Muslim.

Disqualifying a candidate on the basis of race or gender is a symptom of our dark side. Even though this negativity or dark side can be unconscious, we are ultimately responsible for it if we want to consider ourselves full-fledged human beings. When we acknowledge our dark side through honest or humble contemplation, we can put it aside, thereby enabling us to perceive the political candidates more objectively and to act in the spirit of what's good for America.

These impulses that radiate from our dark side are just as strong as our sex drive and just as able to screw up our lives. To sense the power of these impulses, read The March of Folly, a history of national self-defeat by Pulitzer-Prize winning author Barbara Tuchman. More awareness of our dark side would help us to avoid acting out the ultimate self-defeat of denying global warming.

The dark side is a kind of inner tyranny and we need to rebel against it. The greatest freedom is freedom from our dark side.

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Peter Michaelson is author of Democracy's Little Self-Help Book and The Phantom of the Psyche: Freeing Ourselves from Inner Passivity. He is a practicing psychotherapist and offers telephone sessions and specializes in marriage and partnership conflict resolution. PDF files of his books are available at www.QuestForSelf.com.


Getting a grip on our egos

Peter....I appreciate your insight into racism, and I agree we must look within to overcome our fears and insecurities. Obama gave an excellent overview of racism that is on both sides of the fence. This 200+ year old problem didn't happen overnight. It will take many years to help Americans work our way through this.

Having a background very similar to Obama's (he could have been my brother), I believe him when he says he has the ability to bridge our racial divide. When racism is not handed down to children, the individual grows to look at a person's character...moreso than their color.

Being able to relate to almost anyone, I have turned around apathetic, multicultural communities, taught students how racism divides and hurts us, as well as helped individuals work through their racial perception of others. To see how groups of people thrive and enjoy one another after overcoming the disease of racism, is a beautiful thing. I've been told it's like a weight has been lifted, or even similar to paying off all credit card debts...only many times better. It's like being free. Really free.

Obama is the best candidate for us at this time. He has the wisdom, vision, leadership skills, diverse background and integrity that is desperately needed at this critical turning point for America. Obama inspires people and gives hope. Those unaffected by the disastrous leadership of Bush/Cheney, are oblivious to the pain, depression and hopelessness of those who are in pain. The American people have lost hope, something Obama has given them.

Obama could easily earn a million dollar income, together with his capable wife, and join the wealthy in the good life. The challenges he would face as president are no joy ride, considering the nightmare Bush is leaving. So we must ask ourselves, what's in it for him? Because of my own need to help people be all they can be, I sense Obama is on a greater mission than most would understand. He has challenged himself to help America be all that she can be. In order to do that, racism must be dealt with and overcome. And the very people who need Obama the most, are fighting him for all they're worth.

There's a book I recently read that should be required reading for all high school students: "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle. He explains how rising above our ego-based state of consciousness is essential to personal happiness, but also the key to ending conflict and suffering in our lives and the world. Tolle says "our attachment to ego creates dysfunction that leads to anger, jealousy and unhappiness." The book is enlightening, uplifting and leads the way to a better life - and for building a better world.

America has many critical challenges to face: recession/depression; loss of the middle class; a corrupt administration, political system and government; leadership that ignores citizen's needs; energy and environment crisis; an illegal war that has cost over $2 trillion so far; and hatred and disrespect for America by the world.

Race has been the sin of America and played a major role in holding us back. We owe it to ourselves to learn who we are, overcome our fears and select a candidate who will help us work through the challenges we face. Until we get a grip on our egos, we will continue making poor choices for president, as well as in our lives. We cannot afford to put this off any longer.

I fear this is our last chance to get it right.

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Deeper into Racism

Peter Michaelson, thank you for saying what needs to be said and for doing it so well. Subtle racism is harder to fight and easier to deny. I am grateful to Barack Obama for stepping up and finally tackling this thorny issue. He did it with respect, grace and intelligence which sadly will be lost on too many subtle racists who see this only as an excuse to thwart the efforts to get Barack Obama elected. Thank you again for your eloquence and honesty.